Here is the latest quote from my stalker in regards to me; "Amen; I figured out what the problem amen I know what the problem is. She wants me to worship her… I keep finding more lies and it drives her crazy…. Lazy liar…"
I find it interesting that she uses the word "worship" in reference to her idolizing what she feels she knows about me. I do not care for her attention and when she posts such, I realize that she can only post what she really doesn't know. Of course, this has to prove her inflated character of degradation and gossip. It validates her lonely existence and woefully incorrect diagnosis of what a true and honest life is all about. I am far from lazy; and she knows this! Whatever obstacle she places in front of me; I climb over and make a success of. For this, I thank her! Coming across as a Christian one day and openly degrading person in the next day, sends mixed signals and people are aware that she is dangerous, lonely, and unable to handle even her sense of reality. I have been warned by several persons in her community that she can be violent and unforgiving; even to her animals.
At its core, stalking consists of repeated attempts to gain control over or terrorize someone. Stalking exists on a continuum. On the lower end, it might involve repeated phone calls, letters, or email contacts. In its more extreme manifestations, however, stalking might involve repeatedly going to a person’s house, making threats against a person, harming pets, stealing possessions, or interfering with a person’s relationships with friends, family, or coworkers. Stalkers may alternate between patterns of domestic violence and stalking; via in person and publicly over the internet. This becomes the lowest form of being a coward and a fake.
Stalkers often empahsize that they "worship" their victims and say they are stalking to keep others safe. My stalker does this daily. She runs to gossip and relay what she feels to be true and correct when it is not. Stalking is a crime of control. Some mental issues can lead to stalking. We understand that our stalker has personality issues such as borderline personality diagnosis and uses manipulative tactics to try and control people. This has become more apparent as she cannot cause a reaction as she use to be able to do. Life goes on, court judgments have been won, and a community knows what kind of person she really is. Logging every incident is key to pursuing what needs to be done. I am guarded and legal authorities are aware of her actions and threats. A permanent injuction is in place and for every personal interaction that she should not have, it documented and ready for reporting.
This is a woman we lift up in prayer. She has free agency to do what she pleases. She will have to answer for her crimes one day to a higher court as we all will have to. In the meantime, no one "worships" her. In fact, I work hard very hard to be better than I was the day before. One day, she will write the truth (maybe)! Maybe she is unable to read, write, and tell the truth. Maybe she is so wrapped up in her misery that she cannot reason the truth from reality. Whatever it is; we will wish her the best and silence is our success!
References:
Help for victims. (n.d.). Stalking Resource Center. Retrieved from http://www.victimsofcrime.org/our-programs/stalking-resource-center/help-for-victims
King, M. W., & Sivak, A. (n.d.). Stalking: New studies shed light on a crime that terrorizes its victims. National Crime Prevention Council. Retrieved from http://www.ncpc.org/programs/catalyst-newsletter/catalyst-newsletter-2009/volume-30-number-11/stalking-a-new-study-sheds-light-on-a-crime-that-repeatedly-terrorizes-its-victims
Stalking. (n.d.). National Institute of Justice. Retrieved from http://www.nij.gov/topics/crime/stalking/
Stalking. (n.d.). USDOJ: Office on Violence Against Women: Crimes of Focus: Stalking. Retrieved from http://www.ovw.usdoj.gov/aboutstalking.htm
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