Dealing with those who play victim can be exhausting and who needs it anyway? Who exactly are these people anyway? I giggled my way through a study group last night as we talked about people that play "victim" their entire lives and stay muck deep in their own pity party. We know that our person that cannot get past us is playing the manipulative act. We know her background, we know her actions are stuck in a negative pattern due to childhood abuse, neglect, mental illness (her proclaimed), and trauma.
A person who has victim mentality is a controlling individual. He/she absolutely must be in control no matter what is happening in their lives. They use PITY to make sure things go their way. They want to control the outcome of their lives and the people in it as well. If they cannot control others in any other way, they will turn to playing games and PLAYING VICTIM. The smear campaign will be never ending towards me because she did not get what she wanted and still can't. She is stuck in the mentality that her truth is the absolute truth and exaggerates the stories to make her seem as if she is the one being picked on. NOBODY is correct; she is. NOBODY is right; she is. Even down to everyday practical life issues. It must be an exhausting place to live.
AND you tuned in again ... Can't stay away, can you?
($20,691.25, I am sure you are the victim here as well!)
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