Today I had a good laugh!
When a bully calls another person a name, they are attempting to control how others see the person. For instance, a bully may call someone “stupid.” This name-calling is usually done in front of others and is meant to encourage others to view the person as “stupid” as well. If the name-calling is repeated, over time others, including the target, may begin to associate the word “stupid” with that person. And eventually, that hurtful label can become part of who that person is. I love being called, "narcissistic"! When fingers are pointed at me, I realize that they are the fingers of those covering up their own weaknesses and insecurities. They are defining who they truly are and not those whose lives they wish to make uncomfortable. And love .. Maybe this type of person is incapable of true and enduring love. I know that the male version is!
Moving into the future and away from the "dead yellow roses" is where life should be. Today is the first day of warmth, sunshine, and watching the grass turn green from being dormant far too long. Our yard and acreage are soon to be filled with vegetables and fruit; I now have a nursery license, small produce license, business license, and the greenhouse is being built. I have enough college credits to graduate with a degree in humanities and philosophy which was a surprise when the audit was completed for graduation. Accomplishment is good when hard work, tenacity, and positive attitude are given. I had an incredible birthday; my husband provided a surprise birthday party for me with all of my employees, we had an incredible birthday catered BBQ with my brothers, children, and a few Eastern Washington best friends. I guess the bully isn't as correct as she wants to be! This is why silence is the best revenge!
Life is amazing in Idaho!
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