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How To Deter A Stalker

How to Deter A Stalker







Today I had a wonderful conversation with two police departments and the federal bureau of investigation. What prompted the conversations and filings of fraud was the IRS sending me letter stating that my personal information has been used in a small northern town in Idaho. Interesting! Upon further review, there are more issues that have been reported and we will deal with them through the courts. I am grateful for the assistance of the local law enforcement and the kind note to assist in any way that they can.


This is something that I have been blamed for many years and yet here it is; where it started and I am in 2023, and it still is happening with her. And she wants to be a mediator which would include gathering personal information from others! The mediation information came from one of the officers! Of course, we won the lawsuit against her, have a permanent injunction, and she has never paid a dime on the lawsuit. She is an upstanding American citizen and took out bankruptcy. She was never able to marry her "soul mate" or was she allowed to live in his home. She lies about homes in Arizona, she was taken to court by the attorney stated, and lost miserably. My husband and I didn't have to travel to Washington (she did, though, while cheating on her terminally ill husband), I have not false profiles, stolen IDs, no social security numbers that are not my own, and I don't need to broadcast such on social media!


  • Have another person with you. Walk out to your car with a coworker, join a jogging group instead of going alone, and ask someone to come along for errands.

  • Keep a record of any and all incidents.

  • Tell your family and all other people that need to know.

  • Upgrade your house security.

  • Avoid going out alone.

  • Be prepared for an attack.

  • Ensure that your family is safe.

  • Change your contact number.

  • Go invisible on the internet.

  • Cry out for help.

The best way to deter a stalker is to live a life in success, hard work, and forward movement. I have no problem in reporting the wrongs against me and will continue to do so. It must be a sad, lonely life to pretend and yet attempt to control what others think even when it is false. Perhaps "mediation" will be of help to her!

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