Parasitic people like to understand what they are doing but for the most part, they don't care. A parasitic person attempts to build their self-esteem off others who feel more confident. I get it. Over 10 years ago, a parasitic person decided she was going to try and destroy my life because she couldn't have the man that she wanted. He didn't want her for the whole person but he could use her for the sex. As I already knew, he was parasitic as well. Her anger, her hatred, her denial, her rage, her attitude developed into a lifelong mission to continue to destroy me. She is so focused on this mission that she has literally lost other relationships and her quality of life. She plays the victim game in an attempt to turn the blame to me but there is none. I have a life after the parasite person. As the weekend has given me information, she is in a sad place. She has become a perpetual victim in her reality of muck, disorder, and junk.
It is normal for a person who suffers from mental illness to play victim. Most of the time, it can be the feeling of being overwhelmed by the symptoms of the illness. With bipolar disorder, the victim mentality may come after a severe bout of mania (we found this information) due to the refusal of taking medication. They may play the victim to keep from accepting responsibility for the negative actions of their illness. This person does understand what she is doing and needs to take responsibility for what she has done.
I am grateful for the empowerment that this person has taught me. Personal empowerment is the sense that I am in control of my life. It enables me to make positive decisions, and to take action that will bring me closer to achieving my goals and ambitions. My marriage is stronger than ever and despite setbacks with my husband's health, we are traveling with family and friends. I have a 4.0 GPA this semester. My dissertation has enabled me to move into my second-year master's program with wonderful motivation from my professor. Our small farm is producing and we are receiving a small income. My home is beautiful, secure, and comfortable. I am not the victim in the stalker scenario as she makes me out to be. She is the victim enclosed in her own hate, disregard for others, and bad behavior. It is time to own up to it all and pay the debt. I empathize with her journey and her misery, but I refuse to be a part of it. Grow up!
I don't need to block anyone on Facebook because blocking is a high school drama thing. I still have friends from my hometown and we are close! Some since the 1st grade! They know the parasite and the issues because they have had to deal with her from one time to another. They have been the best support and encouragement. The town she lives in tolerates her. She expects everyone around her to behave well or suffer consequences for negative choices. She feels righteously perfect and easily blames others. We will see how this goes for her! Consequences have to be paid sooner or later!
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